Our Final Days at Sea

We recently had the most amazing vacation aboard Holland America’s Nieuw Amsterdam  and I have had a wonderful time writing about it.  I have discovered even more about each destination as I’ve researched them further and I have had the pleasure of reliving it all over again as I post the pictures.  I hope that you’ve enjoyed your time aboard with us.  Sadly, I will close this chapter of our overseas adventure and move onto the next story in an upcoming post.  There is still plenty more to come in the blog pipeline…

“Dad, wrap this up already – you’re putting us all to sleep!”

If you joined us thus far, you’ll know we visited Venice, Olympia and Athens in our first post and then Istanbul and Lesbos in the second post.  The final leg of our cruise transports us to Kuşadası,  Santorini and Argostoli.  As always, we’ll include some of our shipboard life and hopefully you’ll be able to stick with me – I’ve got a ton of pictures in this final post.

When I last left you, we were sailing away from the Greek island of Lesbos and I was getting knocked out of a blackjack tournament final table with some unlucky cards.  The only thing that could wash away that feeling of despair was some spiritual enlightenment.  Sure, they have a chapel aboard the ship – but I think strolling directly from the casino into the chapel is the sort of thing that the Big Guy frowns upon, so I waited for our port the following day.
We woke up in Kuşadası, Turkey – a beautiful resort town on the Aegean coast; wonderful in it’s own right, but not our intended destination.  We were set to visit, Ephesus – an ancient city with a plethora of historic treasures.  There are two main spectacles to behold within the vicinity of Ephesus – the Ancient City itself and the House of the Virgin Mary.  Since the terrain was difficult to access and far from the ship, we hired a private driver to bring us to the notable sites.  We first started with the House of the Virgin Mary, arriving fairly early in the morning.  This small home was said to be the final home and final resting place of the Virgin Mary, carried here to live out her final days by St. John, the Apostle.  Our early arrival time did little to help put us in a tolerable position in the queue (yes, I just “British’d” it up).  The house is both a Catholic and Muslim shrine (so… um, yeah – number one and two religions in term of size).  Given that fact, the line would normally be long – but we happened to arrive on the most “holy” of days.  The annual pilgrimage to the House of the Virgin Mary coincided with our visit and threatened to consume our entire day along with the thousands of other visitors cramming in to see a tiny house.

Jen and Julia in front of the House of the Virgin Mary
A bronze statue of the Virgin Mary welcomes all visitors

 As spiritually enlightening as seeing a 150 sq. foot home could be (admittedly, this was more my wife’s gig than mine), I was not thrilled at the prospect of standing in line under the hot sun all day.  I saw an alternative option and struck with military precision when the time was right.  First, I set out on a reconnaissance mission to scout additional routes for people with strollers.  Coming up empty handed in that department, I formulated a plan.  When I returned to Jen and Julia standing in line, I uttered the following words verbatim; “follow me, don’t ask any questions, don’t stall and keep up with my pace”.  You see, my wife is a perpetual “rule follower” and I am a habitual “rule breaker”.  Her innocence often thwarts my plans for easy advancement – but I think she was on board this time; moving at a snails pace under a hot Turkish sun will cause any mother to want to move!  We whisked past the crowds, through an outdoor church service and out the other end to a gate immediately in front of the house. It certainly helped that I was pushing a baby stroller and can dish a kind smile that I reserve for occasions like these.  My little stunt saved us an estimated three hours (no exaggeration).  Jen was pleased with my shenanigans for once… now maybe I can convince her to come over to the dark side.

Just a portion of the long line that was making the annual pilgrimage to see the house
Mary would not approve of my behavior – I did have a baby to worry about though
Jen lights a candle to ask forgiveness for my shenangins

Our next stop was the the Ancient City of Ephesus.  Artifacts excavated on site have proved that there were inhabitants in this area as far back as the Neolithic Age (6,000 BC), with consistent development throughout the Bronze Age and into the Archaic Period, when the city really began to prosper (650 BC).  The city changed from Greek to Roman and finally into Turkish domain in 1304.  Today, archeologists are constantly amazed by the plethora of treasures being discovered on a continual basis.  The prevailing theory is that they have only unearthed a fraction of the city (a lot of major discoveries were made as recently as the 1970’s), but limited funds have slowed down excavation and restoration efforts.  Some of the more notable discoveries are the Temple of Artemis, which is one of the Seven Ancient Wonders of the World and the Library of Celsus, which appeared on the Turkish Lira between 2001 and 2009.

We passed this large Virgin Mary on the way to the Ancient City
Standing next to the Basilica Stoa
Julia decides to lead the tour for our little group
“Peekaboo!”
“Look at me!”
The Bouleuterion (100 AD) housed the meetings of the council
Julia and I hiked all the way to the top of the Bouleuterion
Street lined with archeological excavations
The Temple of Domitian (81 AD)
The Curetes Street – a main boulevard prestigiously equipped with marble paving and home to many boutiques
The Deep Traveler statue recovered in 2013 dates back to 1980 – Jen’s favorite piece
The Trajan Fountain (102 AD)
The Temple of Hadrian (138 AD) – one of the most stunning ruins along the Curetes Street
We discovered a seldom seen gem, the Latriana
Public latrines where residents would literally sit cheek to cheek
Family photo in front of the Celsus Library
Tiberius Julius Aquila commissioned the Celsus Library (110 AD) as a mausoleum for his father
Column base with writing from Ancient Greek times
A market enclosed the exit gate of the ancient city – I happened to love this guy’s honesty

The next stop on our cruise was the port I was most excited about above all our other destinations – Santorini, Greece.  Images of white homes with blue trim overlooking the Aegean danced in my head all night.  Our wonderful Cruise Director, Anthony and Location Guide, Tom would televise a show about each port prior to our arrival.  Through this in-room broadcast, I learned that Santorini (Σαντορίνη) sits perched high atop a cliff, with three ways to ascend.  You can traverse the vertical 260 meters (853 feet) by climbing a difficult 580 steps (not ideal for couples with strollers) or you could opt to take the cable car for a fast and scenic arrival.  Finally, you can chose to climb the absolute best way possible – by donkey!!  Believe me, it was not easy to sell this option to Jen – but I never take “no” for an answer.  We had an absolute blast climbing, laughing and trying not to fall off.  I don’t think Julia has ever had so much fun in her life and I haven’t laughed quite so hard as I did to the shrieks of pure terror coming from Jen.  The donkeys climb the pathway unassisted and will [at times] pin you against a wall while they wait for the overcrowding of ascending and descending donkeys to clear.  All in all – a wonderful experience.

“eehh-aaaww!”
“You want me to carry you AND you’re baby?!”
The guide helps us on – that was the last we saw of him, this donkey was on autopilot
And w’ere off
Julia wanted to take a turn on her own

Santorini is an island unlike any we’ve ever seen.  First of all, the entire complex of islands was formed by a volcanic eruption over 60 million years ago.  The city today is essentially what remains after a more recent volcanic explosion in the modern age (this area is the most active volcanic area in the South Volcanic Aegean Arc).  Santorini is financially supported by the bustling tourism industry; not surprising as ours was one of three cruise ships waiting patiently off shore for the tenders to bring passengers back and forth.  In fact, Santorini was the only port to provide their own tenders – much larger boats than any cruise ship could provide in order to bring more people ashore quickly.  It is actually quite smart of them to recognize that opportunity.

Horsing around with daddy
And then mommy
The blue ocean was simply magnificent
Julia is kind enough to share her drink with me
As well as her mother
This guy was selling freshly caught lobsters – look at the size of those beauties
Family photo
My two girls
Santorini
“I love this place!”
The blue domed churches were exactly what I envisioned
Some of the resorts offered stunning views – of all our ports, we want to come back to Santorini the most
A city unlike any other
I thought this was a great “artistic” shot – I was later validated when I saw this image in a travel magazine
From Homer’s Odyssey?
Here you can really get a sense of the volcanic caldera upon which the city was built
The white houses and blue domed roofs were just as promised
Climbing up a portion of the volcano – just off the beaten path
Jen covers Julia from the sun
#HollandAmerica would have these amazing reception areas at every port before re-boarding the ship
Sailing away gave you a true sense of the grandeur of the island

After Santorini, we saw the end of our cruise approaching quickly.  I think we both somewhat dismissed our final destination, since neither of us had heard of Argostoli, Greece (in fact, when we woke up at port Jen proclaimed, “Oh!  We have another stop?!”).  Quietly dismissing Argostoli (Αργοστόλι) as, “just another stop” was foolish since it turned out to be one of the most pleasant days we experienced.  The island is one of the larger of Greek Isles and was has the pleasure of hosting gorgeous beaches.

Family photo in front of the aqua-green waters of Argostoli
We passed through a brief section of woods before arriving at the beach
The beach opened before us like a butterfly spreading it’s wings for the first time (too much??)
You can never go wrong when you can rent straw beach umbrellas for the day
There were tons of people in the warm water

When we pulled away from Argostoli, we had one final “formal night” aboard the ship.  Holland America went all out for this final night and served lobster tails and filet mignon in many of the ship’s restaurants.

Family photo in the Manhattan Dining Room on the formal night
Jen and Julia get ready for their meals
We started with foie gras
We each ordered surf and turf

The last day aboard was a sea day and so the world was our oyster.  As always, there were plenty of activities to keep us entertained.  One activity in particular caught my eye – a behind the scenes tour of the Nieuw Amsterdam’s amazing kitchen.  We got to walk through their massive, industrial kitchen and I learned a few interesting facts about our ship.  A kitchen crew of 150 individuals prepare food for 223 service staff to serve the guests each day.  Each week 11,830 lbs of meat is consumed aboard the ship.  A fact that I thought was staggering until I learned that 1,675 lbs of butter is also consumed each week (yuck – heart attack)!  The tour was wonderful and the crew gave Julia one of their display crabs made from cooked bread dough.

The Executive Chef, Daniel Hergic poses with two of his chefs
A display of some of their finer beef and lamb
The form of their “bread-animal” displays before they were cooked
And then the final product.  Julia got to keep the crab (the missing gap in the middle)

Included in the cost of most cruises is unlimited food at a variety of restaurants (casual dining, poolside dining, room service and the main dining rooms).  Many cruise ships also offer the option to pay a nominal fee for more specialized dining (usually between $15 – $35/pp).  On our previous cruise, Norwegian Cruise Line had a Japanese steak house complete with hibachi show.  On our last day aboard the Nieuw Amsterdam, we decided to try two of the three specialized restaurants.  We had a lunch of dim-sum in the Tamarind Restaurant, an upscale Asian specialty restaurant and then finish our cruise with a celebratory dinner at the Pinnacle Grill, a five-star steakhouse.  Our last dinner was made even more special when the casino sent a bottle of wine to our room prior to dinner and then another one to the table as we dined!  What a wonderful way to cap off the most amazing vacation of our lives.

We started with a hot and sour soup
Asian Herb Szechuan Sesame Salad
Steamed classic dumplings and a mixture of items from the wok, paired with fried rice

Later that night, at the Pinnacle Grill…

Jen started with a lobster bisque made tableside
Lobster bisque with crème fraîche and aged cognac
My caesar salad with homemade dressing, grated parmesan cheese, garlic croutons and anchovies, prepared tableside
My porterhouse with horseradish-mustard and master chef’s green peppercorn on the side
Jen ordered the lobster tail on a bed of wilted spinach and arugula, with “mango-churri” pesto sauce
Julia thanks Captain Edward G. van Zaane

Thank you Holland America for hosting us and thank you for reading all about it!

Come Here, You Turkey!

In my most recent blog post, we embarked on a cruise throughout the Mediterranean.  I’d love for you to continue the adventure with us as we head to Istanbul, Turkey and the beautiful Greek island of, Lesbos.  I’ll finalize our voyage in an upcoming post that will include the final ports of call and some more stories about our shipboard life.

“Oh, tell me… tell me all about it!”

When I last left you, we had visited Venice, Olympia and Athens.  By this point in the cruise, we really hit our stride and had fully immersed ourselves in everything Holland America’s Nieuw Amsterdam had to offer.  We were overeating delicious food (and then trying to work some of it off in their state-of-the-art gym), spending time in the casino (maybe too much time… literally every casino worker knew me by name), taking in shows and making friends all over the ship.  We found a couple of other families with small children, but for the most part – we were in the minority (not fitting into your typical “cruise-goer” demographic).  I’ll tell you what… if you ever want affirmation about your kids cuteness – go on a cruise with thousands of grandparents missing their grandkids.  They were all so happy to pay us compliments about Julia that it made us excited to take her anywhere on board.

Julia made friends wherever she went
She gained a large following of fans
That grew the longer we were on board

Midway through the cruise, we arrived in Istanbul, Turkey.  This was to be the only port mid-voyage that had an overnight stay, allowing us two days to explore the massive city.  To describe Istanbul as “massive” is underselling it.  The city boasts a population of nearly 14 million people in the urban area alone and is ranked as the second largest city in the world ranked by population within city limits [source].  It is the only city in the world that stretches across two continents (Europe and Asia).  Istanbul is home to over 3,000 mosques and welcomes nearly 12 million visitors each year.  These are just a few of the fun facts about this amazing city, so yeah… massive really undersold it!  If only there was some sort of book… kind of like a dictionary… that would give you alternate versions for specific words…

When we got off the ship on the first day, we took a bus directly to the Grand Bazaar.  This location was ideal, because it would afford us the time we wanted to shop and then walk around that particular area of the city.  We walked through the gates of the Grand Bazaar and our mouths dropped. I still remember the first time I went to a flea market.  My great aunt Barbara took me to a market in New York when I was 8 years old.  I was awestruck by all the amazing things that could be found with just a little looking.  She bought me a brand new GIJoe Cobra Stun vehicle that I probably still have in a basement somewhere to this day.  If I could reconstruct that image of my first market in my mind, with all my boyish enthusiasm and multiply it by a hundred – it couldn’t reach the level of awe I found myself in as a man standing in the Grand Bazaar.  You can even factor in the fact that I had a wife repeatedly telling me, “I’m ready to shop – make sure you have plenty of Euro’s handy” weighing on my mind!

Main Gate of the Grand Bazaar
Shops extend around the outside of Grand Bazaar

The Grand Bazaar is like nothing we’ve ever seen.  It is an enclosed market that ranks among the oldest in the world.  61 city streets house 3,000 shops that eagerly accept the money of up to 400,000 visitors every single day.  This does not include the open air markets that have been built around the Bazaar and dominate many more city streets.  Originally, each shopkeeper was allotted a 6′ or 8′ dolap (stall) in which to showcase their wares, the finest of which were kept hidden in drawers.  The market was erected after the Ottoman Empire between 1455 and 1460.  It reached it’s final form in the 17th century and not much has changed since.  The main reason for the collective, enclosed space were to prevent against theft, fire and uprising.  Even though the Turkish Lira is the currency of the country, merchants accept US dollars, Euros or Turkish Lira.

Jen and Julia enter the Grand Bazaar
Some teas for sale
The Turkish nargile (hookah) became popular during the Ottoman Empire
Jen and Julia with a Turkish flag behind them
Julia was fascinated with the beautiful lamps
Jen and I pause for a picture in the market

We didn’t notice any food vendors or restaurants inside the Bazaar – it turns out, the merchants have been bringing their lunches in boxes called sefertas for hundreds of years.  However, they can get simple dishes like döner kebabs delivered right to their stalls (although, it’s more common for one of the merchants to bring back lunch for the entire shop).  What I did notice quite a bit (and became somewhat fascinated with) was the bustling tea delivery business.  Turkish tea is a huge part of the culture throughout the country.  Tea is most often consumed in Turkish households – offering it to guests is a part of Turkish hospitality.  It’s no different in the Bazaar; the custom of drinking tea blends the important tradition hospitality with the other main component for drinking the tea  – the social congregation of men.  Tea runners (as I was calling them) would skillfully whisk past the crowds and deliver un-spilled tea by balancing the cups on a tray with a long handle.  What fascinated me the most was that I never saw any money exchanged for the tea.  I imagined the tea runners marking how much tea a merchant drank and collecting on the tab at the end of the week.  I have searched the internet to prove or disprove my theory of a “tab” system – but I could not find anything. Any Turkish merchants or Tea Salesmen reading this – please weigh in.

Guys like these would run all over the market, delivering tea
*photo credit – flickr: photographer unknown

We spent hours navigating the maze that is the Grand Bazaar before we realized the sun was setting.  Our intention was to walk the city around after we’d shopped.  We had the flexibility to stay out as long as we liked because our ship wasn’t leaving until the next day; although we agreed that we were ready to head “home” for the night and set out early the next day.  It turns out that it was a good thing we did!  The ship was hosting a Turkish Taraf – a poolside party complete with live music, a Turkish belly-dancer, exotic drinks and spicy kebabs.  An outdoor pool party is always a great thing, but if you have the shimmering city lights and uplight mosques of Istanbul framing the backdrop (and did I mention the belly-dancer), there is no greater party combination in the world (this is coming from the guy that was basically the President of Parties in college).

A variety of wine was served at the party – live band in the background
The Blue Mosque at night
The quarter moon looked exactly like quarter moon on the Turkish flag
They were grilling authentic Turkish food
The belly dancer takes the stage
She recruited guests to help her move and move their own hips
The pool was decorated with lights
The crew dressed the part
The scenery was beautiful

The next day we got an early start – with so much of the city left to take in, we wanted to get in as much as physically possible.  We decided we would try to beat most of the crowds and start with the mosque’s.  Specifically, the Hagia Sophia and the Blue Mosque – which sit opposite one another.  We only ended up touring the Sultan Ahmed Mosque – or Blue Mosque, as it’s commonly called due to it’s blue tiles that adorn the inside walls.  The mosque’s construction began in 1609 when it was commissioned by Sultan Ahmed I to not just rival the Hagia Sophia, but to surpass it.  The mosque has an unprecedented six minarets (still the only mosque in Istanbul with six to this day), which garnished the wrath of the public.  The display of six minarets was preserved for the Prophet’s mosque in Mecca – therefore the Sultan was criticized for incorrectly thinking that he was the man.  The prevailing urban legend is that there was a miscommunication in which the Sultan told his architect he wanted gold minarets (altin minare) and the architect understood six minarets (alti minare).  Seems fishy to me – sounds like he concocted a scapegoat to shift the heat off himself.  Ultimately, he corrected the situation by shelling out the dough to build a seventh minaret on the Prophet’s mosque in Mecca.  Whatever the correct history, it was fascinating to absorb in the first person.

We started our day before the city really woke up – just shop keepers setting up
Sulton Ahmed Mosque (the Blue Mosque)
Approaching the mosque
We had fun playing in front of a fountain
Julia steals my hat – I guess she wanted to block the sun
Hagia Sophia Mosque
All female visitors are required to wear proper garments
The ceiling and some of the blue tiles that are the reason for the nickname, Blue Mosque
The mosque sees a large number of visitors every day
It’s impossible not to gaze upward at the amazing display of over 20,000 handmade tiles
Jen and Julia in the mosque
Family photo in the mosque
Another family photo

After the mosque tour, we headed northeast by foot to the Topkapi Palace.  The palace was the primary residence of Ottoman Sultans for over 400 years.  To this day, the residence consumes more land mass along the shoreline than any other single property and has been deemed by UNESCO as “the best example of ensembles of places of the Ottoman period.”  We were very excited to see the palace, but unfortunately it was closed and so we had to settle for a stroll through the public gardens.

Inside the gardens of the Topkapi Palace
This unique tree appeared as if it had tattoos

After a long walk to our next destination, we first wanted to stop and have lunch.  I had been dying for one thing since arriving in Turkey – a döner kebab.  We found a restaurant that looked perfect and ducked inside for lunch.  Just prior to walking in, we heard the adhan, called out by the muezzin from mosques across the city – amplified by loudspeakers.  More commonly known in English as the call to prayer, this unique chant is called out five times a day, summoning Muslims for mandatory worship.  After lunch we entered the famous Spice Bazaar – the center for spice trade in Istanbul.  The market is the city’s second largest covered market behind the Grand Bazaar.

Döner kebab – a mixture of meat, usually veal and or beef with lamb and sometimes chicken
The only thing better than a freshly made döner kebab is one that you slice yourself!
Entering the Spice Bazaar
Merchants showcase their wares, including the ever-popular, Turkish Delight
Here you can find most all spices, from hot curry to sweet paprika
The markets in Istanbul seemed endless – this is departing the Spice Bazaar
The ship hosted another party, this time a “sail away” party that included wonderful wine
As well as delectable and authentic treats

After our trip to the bustling city of Istanbul, a little bit of unplugging was just what we needed.  We easily accomplished this on the island of Lesbos, Greece.  This Greek island in the northern part of the Aegean Sea is Greece’s third largest, with a bustling capital (Mytilene) and 200 miles of coast line).  Some ports were too small for our monolithic cruise ship, and so we had to use the tender system.  All large cruise ships are equipped with smaller boats that can transport passengers from the ship to land when arriving in smaller ports of call.  Generally, you are assigned a group number (depending on how quickly you arrive to collect it) and then send ashore in that order.  Surprisingly, we arrived fairly early and got to shore just in time to snatch up one of the few remaining tiki huts on the beach.  After that, it was clear sailing – nothing but relaxing and sitting in the crystal clear water.  Oh, and one more thing… skipping stones.  The ocean was just full of perfect stone-skipping rocks.  I could easily average six skips but got as high as fourteen skips – the crowing achievement of the day, only to be topped by making the final table at the Casino’s Blackjack Tournament later that night.

We rode in the tender to get to Lesbos
A view of our boat from the tranquil setting under our beach umbrella
Julia poses for a picture
Skipping rocks with Daddy
Julia wanted to try on her now – she almost got the hang of it
The water was so clear it was fun to just soak
Family toesies
The sun wore Julia out – she was asleep on the ride back
Two beers and a cigar – oh man, oh man!  Relaxing on the ship as we sail away
I’m posing for a picture with my girl, little did I know what she was up to under my hat!
Blackjack tournament final table.  Got knocked out doubling down on 10 against a dealer 6.  It would have given me an unbeatable chip stack with three hands left.  The winner had no idea what he was doing which put me on tilt
The casino would send up desserts and bottles of wine with their compliments.  Perhaps I was too frequent of a visitor??

We still have plenty more adventure to come… please tune back in to the final section of our cruise in the next post.

“I Would Sail 2,700 Nautical Miles and-a I Would Sail 2,700 More…”

Admit it… you sang the title in your head, complete with the voice raising on the “and-a I”

I love to cruise.  Jen loves to cruise.  And now… Julia absolutely loves to cruise.  We have very few experiences aboard cruise ships, but each time we’ve been on one of these massive floating hotels (or mini-floating city’s… I couldn’t choose between adjectives – you pick your favorite), we feel like royalty.  We know that we will chose this method of vacation many more times in our lives.  Cruising requires little planning and you are always rewarded with the very best customer service, the opportunity to see many more cities than you normally could in a given time period, endless activities aboard the ship, wonderful food, the benefit of unpacking only once and perhaps best of all – a very affordable vacation (you can get very good deals if you hawk the last-minute deal sites).

Our ship – Holland America’s MS Nieuw Amsterdam

The first time that Jen and I took a cruise was on our honeymoon.  We spent three weeks sailing around South America (from Buenos Aires, Argentina all the way around Cape Horn and on to Santiago, Chile).  I chose Norwegian Cruise Line (NCL) for our first cruise, primarily because the itinerary was perfect and I found it to be reasonably priced.  I wasn’t nearly the internet-nerd I am today and so I did little research beyond that.  We had a wonderful vacation, ate way too much food, enjoyed some lovely scenery (I have thousands of pictures to prove it) and had an absolute blast.  However, I had no idea how amazing cruising could really be until we recently boarded Holland America’s, MS Nieuw Amsterdam (pronounced, n-e-w); one of the newer ships in their fleet.

Boarding the Nieuw Amsterdam

I had a few checklist items when we moved abroad – things I wanted to do and to see.  Experiencing a cruising-adventure was definitely on that list.  For the first time in our lives, we had the flexibility to really take advantage of a “last-minute” vacation, and so the plan was to use that to our full advantage.  Unfortunately, we discovered that having a child prevents you from really getting those steep 70% off discounts you see flashing on the side of your favorite webpages.  Some cruise lines require a child to pay a full fair.  Others require that he or she have a special room or special bed.  Either way, it seemed that the myth of really inexpensive cruising (at least with a child) was just that – a myth.  Eventually, we searched for dates further into the future (ensuring the ability to book a room that could accommodate a small child) and narrowed our choice down to two cruises with two very different itineraries on two very different cruise lines.

Could this little peanut (eating until her heart is content) actually prevent us from finding our perfect cruise?!
“Who me?!  No way, Dad.  Now, let’s EAT!”

World travelers and vacation aficionados – here’s where you need to pay attention.  I am going to share two valuable resources I discovered throughout this process.  First, I had been paying a fortune in cell phone bills, calling these various companies to get accurate information about their cruises.  Then I stumbled across, gethuman.com – an internet based voiceover IP company that allows you to call most major companies from your computer – for free!  I have spent this past year calling American Express, Visa, Wells Fargo and other companies at a cost of roughly €10 per call… just to get past the automated prompts! This site has revolutionized my ability to manage tasks at home while living abroad.  Second, we discovered cruisecritic.com – the ultimate guide when selecting a cruise.  Consider it the yelp or trip advisor of the sea.  This site allows you to plug in any cruise line and read reviews – but more importantly it allows you to search specific cruise ships, ranking everything on that unique vessel from the food to the service – ultimately awarding the ship a nice, neat approval percentage number.  It’s all very easy and streamlined.  What I learned was that a cruise line can offer a vastly different experience aboard any number of their ships (for example, an older ship with lesser quality food may not be nearly as pleasant as one of their newer ships).  Therefore, we learned that the ship itself is more important than the cruise operator.  And we learned this lesson just in time.  I was on the phone with Costa (the losing company), about to book our cruise.  I had selected this particular cruise because of the funky itinerary.  In addition to the “normal” places, we would have ventured into Ukraine, Romania and Bulgaria.  I was moments away from giving my credit card number when Jen motioned at me frantically, having just discovered this particular ship only had a 54% approval rating.  I got off the call as quickly as possible and called Holland America, booking aboard the Niew Amsterdam.

Julia evaluates one of the rooftop pools – this one was located midship

Our cruise departed from Venice, and so we took the three hour train from our home.  We were in no rush to get into Venice early, having been there on previous occasions.  We bypassed the throngs of tourists vying for photos of the canals and simply went right to the ship.  We stayed in Venice’s port the first night, but set sail early in the morning.  As we sailed through the Canale Della Giudecca in the middle of the city (I had no idea that it was deep enough to accommodate our massive ship), our fabulous Location Guide, Tom gave a memorable and insightful tour of everything that we were seeing.  I apologize in advance for the pictures, I only had Jen’s cell phone with me – poor planning.

Sailing past another ship in the harbor
From high atop our cruise ship – we could see the entire city unfold before our eyes
A beautiful view of Santa Maria della Salute and the Campanile of Piazza San Marco
From this height we could actually look down and across Piazza Saint Marco – a very unique perspective
Here you can see many of the 118 different islands that make up Venice

Our first full day aboard the ship was a Sea Day, which means exactly that – we were at sea all day.  This is wonderful portion of the cruise for anyone that likes to eat, gamble, drink, workout, spa, play in the pool, attend cooking courses, read, mingle, do nothing, do everything…. you get the point.  I think I hit about four or five of those things in the first three hours – eating and gambling at the top of the list.

We woke up early, eager to start the day – but Julia reminds us not to wake our neighbors
We enjoyed a cooking demonstration
Posing with the Chef and Activities Coordinator
Julia would stop and watch this duo, Adagio perform each night after dinner
We hoped that lady luck would find Julia
Julia treats me to a kiss during one of the “formal nights”

The following morning was a real treat – our first Port Day.  We were at port in Katakolon, Greece, which was just a short bus ride away from something you may have heard of… Olympia, Greece.  As in… the place the very first Olympic Games were ever held.  As in, the place that contains the ruins of Zeus’ temple.  And so I was a little geeked-up to see it all.  I didn’t have to imagine standing in the very first olympic stadium – where the worlds best athletes competed since the 8th century BC; we actually got to do it.  It was very awe-inspiring.

Our first sunrise at port
We strolled through Katakolon before our bus departed for Olympia

Travel-bugs… please allow me to give you another tip.  If you are reading this post and thinking, “Greg is making a convincing argument for a cruise… I think I’ll give it a go”; don’t make the mistake many cruise-goers make.  Do not book excursions through the cruise directly.  Sure, it’s easier.  Some may say safer.  Others may tell you they’re better designed.  That’s all true… but at an immense premium.  Please allow me to state my case.  Below is one of the excursion options at our first port (copied from Holland America’s site).  Just skim it if you’d like… I’ll recap:

The small fishing village of Katákolon is your gateway to the mystical site of ancient Olympia, 25 miles to the east. The sanctuary of Olympia has the appearance of a park, and as you step back 2,000 years into the past, imagine the area crowded with athletes, orators, merchants and philosophers surrounding the Temple of Zeus with its forty-foot statue of the god, the ruins of which you will see today. It’s easy to imagine the roar of the spectators as the athletes took their marks on the marble starting blocks, and to picture the temples, treasuries, porticoes and statues as they were. After your visit to Olympia, you will continue to Mercouri Estate, known not only for its wines of supreme quality but also for its magnificent location. This is the area where the Refosco grape was first planted after being imported from Italy. In 1930, the Mercouris built a modern winery and distillery, updated again in 1990 with the latest technology. You are invited to experience the beauty and charm of the vineyards, to see the old and new wineries, and also to taste the locally produced wines.

OK – so you get a bus ride with 40 other schmoes to Olympia, gate access and a wine tasting.  It’s very well written and this guy is singing a sweet sirens song – but he couldn’t lure me.  Guess what it costs… $150 per person plus $60 for kids.  OK – so we’d be all in for $360.  Guess what we did?  We got off the ship, walked over to the person selling bus tickets to Olympia (the same cushy travel bus with A/C and TV’s that the cruise people take) and bought both tickets for $20.  Then another $20 at the gate and I’m all in for $40.  A savings of $320.  With that much left in my pocket, I had my choice of any number of Greek wines “known for their supreme quality” that we picked up at Duty Free on the way back to the ship.

We stop for a family photo in front of the Palaestra
Julia does a little dance number
Ruins of the Theokoleon
A lone column capital (top) remains… 1,000 years old?  2,000 years old?  2,500 years old??
I stop to stand in front of the Temple of Hera
Jen and Julia challenge competitors on the Stadium ground
Lost amongst the rocks in front of the Temple of Zeus
Another view of the Theokoleon
Impressive remains of the Philippeion

The next day we woke up in Piraeus, Greece – which is the port city outside Athens, Greece.  Same thing as before – I bypassed the tempting, but expensive excursions and departed with Jen and Julia in tow.  We walked around the corner and found that the Greek Gods were smiling on us that day.  In addition to the regular cabs and buses to take us the 20 minutes into Athens, there were “Hop On-Hop Off” open-top tour buses.  That meant we would get a ride, an audio tour and the ability to come and go as we pleased, all for $30.

Athens is an amazing city with a recorded history spanning 3,400 years

We rode around Athens, enjoying our tour and chuckling to ourselves at the Greek music they kept playing over and over (imagine the soundtrack to “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” on repeat).  My plan was to complete the loop and finish the audio tour before getting off, but when I saw the majesty of the Parthenon, I knew we needed to depart the bus immediately.

The Parthenon sits atop the Acropolis of Athena

The Parthenon is the featured temple within the Acropolis of Athena; a temple built to honor the Goddess, Athena.  Construction of the temple began in 447 BC and today it is widely considered the most important surviving building from Ancient Greece.  In order to reach the temple, you must climb the imposing slate steps to reach the Acropolis of Athens, an ancient citadel set high atop a rocky outcrop far from today’s modern Greece.  But before we climbed the steps of the Acropolis, we first climbed a neighboring cliff for a view of the magnificent ancient city and the more modern one below.

Athens has roughly 3.2 million inhabitants – Greece’s largest city by a wide margin
Hundreds of visitors passing through the gates of the Acropolis
Ancient ruins are a part of the city – even as modern urban sprawl is built around it
Some more “modern” temples perched atop their own cliffs
My girls begin their ascent
Julia fights the wind and I steal a kiss
I think Athena herself would have been pleased to have this little guest in her temple
As we climbed the steep incline of the Acropolis toward the temples, we narrowly missed slipping and sliding back down to the bottom.  The slate steps were slick even though they were bone dry – I couldn’t imagine making the climb if it had rained.  There were many sights to see, including the amazing expanse of a remarkable city below.  We marched through the ancient doorway leading into the city and stopped for a rest and some photos.
Odeon of Herodes Atticus – a steep sloped amphitheater built in 161 AD
The southern wall remains well intact
Julia lets me kiss her for all of Athens to see
The Parthenon – Temple of Athena
It’s amazing how well the Parthenon has been preserved
Julia pays her respects to the Greek flag
Family photo in front of the Parthenon

While the Parthenon is clearly the star of the show within the Acropolis, there are many other important ancient buildings and temples.  The Greek word Acropolis (Ακρόπολη) is made up of two components – akron, meaning “edge” and polis, meaning “city”.  While there are many other Acropolis’ within Greece, it is commonly accepted that the Acropolis of Athens is the Acropolis in all of Greece.  From the moment we walked through the gateway into the city, I truly felt as if I was transported into an ancient, mythical world – where Gods and Goddesses ruled from on high.  Perhaps I have seen too many movies, but I really did feel as though I was apart of something far bigger than I’ve ever known.  I think I was even annoying Jen a bit with my enthusiasm and newfound feeling of power (as if I was somehow apart of the world of The Gods and could strike down any mere mortal…).  It was probably good that I got out of there when I did, lest I try to actually smite someone.

The Erechtheum – a Temple for both Athena and Poseidon built between 421 and 406 BC
The Porch of the Caryatids (maidens) built to conceal a 15 foot support beam
Another view of the Erechtheum from the south west

We had worked up quite the appetite touring the Acropolis and so we descended the ancient city toward a more modern part of town.  We found a charming pedestrian area of the modern city and stopped for a lunch of what else… Greek salad!  We drank a couple of refreshing Greek beers and then strolled through the ample markets.

Greek salad – the authentic way!

Finally, we boarded the ship and set sail for our next adventure…  I hope you’ll hop back aboard for Part II (coming soon)!

Want To See Where We Live?

For quite some time, Jen and I have wanted to open our home to our readers.  We have had the extreme pleasure of hosting some of our family and friends – but there are still a good number of you that have not seen our home in person.  For that reason, we have wanted to open our doors for quite some time.
Our soggiorno (living room)
You’ve heard me say it many times (if you’re a reader of the blog) – but I feel it’s of the utmost importance that I say it again.  When I say, open our doors – what I really mean to say is, open Dominic and Diane’s (Jen’s parents) doors.”  They have graciously allowed us to live in their pied-à-terre for the past year.  Without them, this trip could not have been possible.
Dominic realized his lifelong dream of owning property in Italy (his mother-country) in 2010 when he and Diane purchased their condo in Lake Como.  They had been looking on-again off-again for a place of their own for years.  The search ranged from Tuscany to Piemonte before they got a call one day from Dominic’s brother, Franco.  A condo directly below his had become available and he wanted to know if they were interested in seeing the place.  They boarded a plane and came back to us a few weeks later with pictures of the place and renderings of what Diane wanted it to look like.
Diane had an architect draw the possible floor plan within the existing condo
Diane is a wonderful designer and a visionary.  She fully renovated the condo – opening rooms, installing a brand new kitchen (with modern conveniences seldom seen in Italian homes) and did it all while carefully maintaining the original beauty of the place (the marble floors are still intact).  She even thought of unique touches like US plugs in each of the bedrooms.  How she was able to get it all done while living alone in Italy for two months (without a car) is still beyond my greatest comprehension.  However, the end result is nothing short of magnificent and certainly has been a wonderful home to us this past year.
Lake Como is in the Lombardia region, situated in northern Italy.  Lago di Como is a magical place with incredible views of water and mountains at every turn.   Since I’ve written many posts and shared many pictures about the various towns along the lake; Como, Menaggio, Tremezzio, Lecco, Brunate – just to name a few, I won’t post too many pictures of the area.  I’d just like to feature a couple new photos of downtown Como, to showcase some of the local flavor.
Downtown Como shot from the side of the lake
The Duomo is the prominent focal point in downtown Como
The Duomo from Piazza della Duomo 
The central arch of the Duomo
The Duomo and piazza at night
The chiesa (church) in Piazza San Fedele
Without further adieu, our home…
View from our front balcony (off the guest room)
Come and walk through our foyer – original marble on the floor
Family Room
Family room and dining table
Family room from the opposite wall
The dining table sits just off the open kitchen – a unique design in an Italian home
Diane had the curved wall on the left custom designed
The dining room and kitchen
Cucina (kitchen) with a larger oven than many homes
Kitchen from the other entrance
View from the balcony off the kitchen
The balcony off the family room – we’ve enjoyed many light dinners outside

Next, we have the bedrooms.  While the condo always had three bedrooms, there was only one bath.  Diane worked with the architect to create a second full bath for guests, while still showcasing a fabulous master bath.  They were able to do it all without taking away any space from the bedrooms.

The sunny and spacious owner’s suite
A quilt hand-knitted by Jen’s nonna adorns the four-post bed
Owners bath – complete with bidet
Hallway separates the bedrooms from the rest of the condo
The second bedroom fits in between the other rooms
“Jessica’s room” has become our guest room – thanks for the loan, Jess!
“Our” former bedroom is now Julia’s bedroom and playroom
The bed is as comfortable as it looks
Another quilt from Jen’s nonna
This balcony is shared by the second and third bedroom
View from the balcony off the bedrooms
I hope you’ve enjoyed our brief tour through the place we’ve been lucky enough to call home this past year.  If you had fun peeking in on our daily life – you may want to check out a scenic post that features great photos of our town and an older post we wrote shortly upon moving here about our kitchen.

And for those of you that haven’t yet come to see us… I’ll use a phrase popularized by Tom Bodett of Motel 6 – “we’ll leave the light on for you”.  Or perhaps more appropriately… “we’ll have the salami ready for you!”

Two Greeks in Italy

I don’t know anyone in their thirties that really goes around saying, “I’m Greek” because he or she was in a fraternity or sorority – but it was certainly fun to be a part of Greek Life during college.  Jennifer and I were both “Greeks” while we attended Virginia Tech together and we each established lifelong friendships that have opened world’s of opportunities.

Lauren and Jen in front of Lake Garda

One of Jen’s sorority sisters, Lauren recently came to visit – and they instantly fell into their old college routine.  We welcomed Lauren at the train station; she was arriving from Switzerland having visited another friend living abroad.  We went to downtown Como and had a nice dinner, before enjoying a few drinks in the piazza while a live band entertained us.

We took an opportunity to visit, Lake Garda, the largest lake in all of Italy.  There is an amazing town on Lake Garda called, Sirmione.  What will strike you most about the town; apart from it’s beautiful castle, hip “beach vibe” and amazing architecture – is that the water shimmers a pure aqua-marine blue, as if you’re been transported to Caribbean waters in the middle of Italy.  The lake was formed by glaciers at the end of the last ice age, perhaps contributing to the unique color of the water.

The shores of Sirmione on Lake Garda
Family photo
Sirmione is certainly a wonderful place to own a boat

The history of Sirmione is quite rich – traces of civilization date all the way back to the 5th century BC. As early as the 1st century AD, the town became a favorite resort place for families from Verona (the closest major city).  I would imagine a vacation home back then would be a place you’d spend an entire summer (or longer) since I would assume it would take quite some time to reach the lake from Verona (horses can only go so fast).  I suppose nothing much has changed over the last 2,000 years – the rich and fabulous still snatch up the choicest water-front property for their personal playgrounds.

The medieval village stretches across a long peninsula
Sirmione has a stunning roofline
The village’s beauty is framed behind the natural beauty of trees, mountains and the lake
We loved this home inside the town
Lauren poses with me and Julia

We had an incredible lunch lake-side and then drove into the ancient Roman city.  One of the main sites and a most impressive examples of fortification, is the Scaliger Castle.  We spent hours walking around, stopping only for pictures and the required coffee and gelato pitstops.

The front of our restaurant
And out back, Julia takes a stroll
Julia took this picture of Lauren at lunch – apart from the partial finger over the lens, it’s pretty good!
Scaliger Castle sits as an imposing fortification in front of the ancient city
Restaurants and shops line the castles moat
A good place for a “selfie”
The castle as well as the only entry-way into the ancient city
“Cheese”
The drawbridge had been lowered
I would love to know the story behind this
The castle has it’s own marina protected by a large, fortified wall
Lauren walks along the castle’s walls
Julia tries to climb the drawbridge
Jen and Lauren stop for a picture

Another day, we visited Lecco a major lake town along our Lake Como.  If you can picture the lake as a pair of legs, Como is the left “foot” while Lecco is the right “foot”.  In fact, people in the town of Lecco often refer to the lake as, Lake Lecco.  Of course, we all know that’s not the case – but it’s a beautiful town nonetheless.

The mountains in Lecco are quite striking
Sailboats back from a beautiful day on the water
Lauren and I take our picture in front of the lake

We loved having Lauren visit and enjoyed seeing a new part of Italy ourselves.

Five Villages – One Day

Cinque TerreStunning.  Breathtaking.  Spectacular.

This often-sought and somewhat difficult place to access is all those things and so much more.  The area of Cinque Terre, which translated literally means, five lands – is a section of rugged coastline that is comprised of five small fishing villages; Monterosso, Vernazza, Corniglia, Manarola and Riomaggiore.  The villages, coastline and surrounding hillside are all part of a National Park that is a UNESCO World Heritage Site.  Each of the five villages offers something individually different from the others; yet the overall unique beauty of Cinque Terre would be entirely different without any one part of the whole.

Fishing boats tied off in Riomaggiore
Looking up the coast from Riomaggiore

When my parents recently came to visit (HERE and HERE), we knew that we wanted to take a mini-road trip.  I had been to Cinque Terre over a decade ago and eager to go back.  I had three vague memories of the most wonderful pesto, my favorite seafood dishes and the creamiest gelato I’d ever had.  There seemed to be no better opportunity to go back than now.

Julia hugs her Grandma and Pop-pop out front of our hotel room

As I said, Cinque Terre is rather difficult to get to.  The easiest way to access the area is via train.  Cars are very limited in the rugged terrain.  Once there, you’ll be presented with three options to traverse the five different villages.  You can take a train that weaves along the coast and cuts through the jagged mountain like mouse holes through an old chateau.  You could opt take the hiking path that has been created over the years.  It is a rugged route – difficult but very rewarding.  Not for the faint of heart or anyone with strollers (thus eliminating this option for us).  Furthermore, the paths are not always well maintained (large sections have been shut down for years due to a landslide) and you can only cover so much ground in a day.  Lastly, you can choose (in my opinion) the most panoramic option – to travel by boat.  Ferries depart each village regularly, giving you plenty of flexibility and ease of travel.  We were able to see each of the five villages in one day by opting for “the ferry route”.

You can see the train tracks ducking into the mountain and the pathway winding around it

But before we could arrive and figure out which of the options above were best for us, we needed a hotel reservation.  This too, proved to be quite difficult.  Jen and I have become rather skillful at examining multiple travel sites, review forums and securing the best available option at the lowest price.  But I had been looking for three whole days and couldn’t find anything!  I felt like Little Mac going against Mike Tyson in the classic 80’s game, Punch-Out!!

“Ouch!”

Bruised and bloodied, I refused to let Doc Louis throw in the towel.  I expanded my search to the neighboring village of Levanto.  A village with certainly enough charm and beauty to be a part of Cinque Terre, but a location set just a couple km too far away to be considered to attend the dance.  Besides, Sei Terre just doesn’t have the same ring to it.  Finally, I found the perfect hotel, set high in the mountains over Levanto.  Villaggio Albergo die Gallo boasts a prime location as a result of their view and ease of access to all the various towns.  My anxiety; “did I pick the right place” was quickly calmed by the soothing feeling of victory as we toured the wonderful property.  I did it – I knocked Tyson flat on his butt!

“We did it!”
View from our room
The hotel had some wonderful terraces
I love the stone facade of the building
The day we arrived in Levanto was a very special day.  Some say, the most important day of the year (OK… my mother have said that… once).  It was my birthday.  So we had plenty of things to celebrate.  The sunshine.  The surrounding beauty.  The history of a 9th century village.  And ME!  We spent the day walking around Levanto, cruising along the beach and climbing to the highest point in the village and then back down.
“OK… I’m reaaaaddy!
Sun bathers soak up the sun on Levanto’s shore
The Castello Medievale dates back to 1165 – used as a residence for kings, a prison and finally a private residence
The parish of S. Andrea was built in 1222 and consecrated in 1463
Pathway leading to the towns church
Back down along the beach – this private residence astounded us
Fishing boats and tourists alike dot the shoreline of Levanto

We stumbled across Il porto medievale di Levanto (the medieval door of Levanto), which lead us through a long, winding and ancient road of immense beauty.

Julia strolls along the medieval pathway
I could barely keep up with her
Julia gives me a special treat on my birthday – a big smile

After working up quite the appetite with all our walking, we selected a restaurant, Osteria Tumelin.  The restaurant has been operating successfully for over 40 years in a building that was constructed in the 12th century.  We chose a wonderful table on the terrace – a great selection for the perfect temperature of the evening.  After dinner, we bought some bottles of limoncello (lemon flavored liquore), made with local lemons that we enjoyed back at our hotel to cap a wonderful day.

Osteria Tumelin
The building dates back to the 12th century
They had a large terrace for outdoor dining
One of our dishes – verdure alla griglia (grilled vegetables)
Grigliata mista di pesce (mixed grilled seafood)
“Ahhh….pasta, pasta!”
We strolled through town after dinner, stopping in a few shops

The following morning, we set out early so that we would have a full day of sightseeing under our belts.  We started in Monterosso, the only village that really has a beach (it’s a common misconception that Cinque Terre is a beach town, but in reality the five villages offer very few places to sunbath, apart from a few large rocks).  In Monterosso, we purchased the ferry tickets and boarded our buoyant taxi.

Monterosso from the mountains above
Monterosso is really the only village that has a small beach
The village is set back in a natural tidal basin
We pull away from the dock on our ferry
View of Monterosso from the boat

We stopped briefly in the port of Vernazza to allow people on board before breezing by the cliff-top town of  Corniglia and then Manarola before finally disembarking at the port in Riomaggiore.

Vernazza from the sea
A closer view of the town and Doria Castle, built in the 15th century as fortification against pirates
In the port of Vernazza
The cliff top village of Corniglia – the only village not set directly on the water
Our boat breezes past Manarola
We approach our final stop, Riomaggiore
Pulling into port at Riomaggiore

We walked around the Riomaggiore, soaking up it’s unique beauty.  We had planned on next taking the hiking trail to Manarola – the only “stretch” of path that is smooth enough for a stroller.  Unfortunately, this was one of the areas affected by the landslide in October of 2011 and has been shut down since then.  Before we re-boarded the ferry, we stopped for an incredible lunch of homemade pasta and fresh seafood.

The “harbor” made from a jetty of rocks is shared by boats, swimmers and sunbathers
Julia tries her hand at balancing in a fishing boat
A local restaurant showcases the day’s seafood specials
Church high in the mountains of Riomaggiore
View of Riomaggiore from inside the village
View of the opposite direction, overlooking the ocean
Pathway into town from the ocean
People sunbath on the rocks and cool off in the water
Julia decided to cool off beneath the shade of a rock
Riomaggiore as we sail away
Riomaggiore is nestled snuggly within a tidy mountainous nook

We “village-hopped” the rest of the day, finally ending up back in Monterosso, content with a full day’s touring.  We made it back to the hotel and took advantage of their restaurant’s pre-fix menu, dining al fresco overtop some of Italy’s most beautiful countryside.

Our ship pulls into port at Manarola
My dad (aka Pop-Pop) disembarks the ship
Next comes Stefani (aka Grandma)
Jen is the last to depart with Her Royal Highness
Ships tied off in Manarola
Vernazza has a nice wide, welcoming appearance
Julia overlooks the water
We had a wonderful dinner as the sun sets over the horizon

By the time our road trip to Cinque Terre had come to an end, so too had my parents visit to Italy reached it’s final chapter.  We had a couple wonderful “last” meals together back in Como and gave them big hugs before sending them back to the US with lots of love.

Step Aside… It’s Time to Grill!

When our friends, Nathan and Danielle had come to visit this past spring – Danielle pointed at a unique outdoor-oven-with-a-chimney-thingy in a neighbors yard and asked what it was.  I replied with all the confidence in the world that it was an Italian-style BBQ, but in reality I wasn’t positive.  I had seen the smoke billowing through the chimney and I had seen many of these things in other neighbors yards – but I had never inquired about it.  I asked my “go-to guy for all things Italian”… Jen’s uncle, Franco.  He confirmed that it was in fact a BBQ and a fairly typical one in Italy.  So, my educated guess was right.  Whew!

Classic Italian style outdoor grill

I noticed shortly thereafter that the typical gas Weber grills we’re accustomed to using in the States are non-existent here.  In fact, it’s possible you may see a round charcoal grill – but more often than not, it’s one of these large, permanent fixtures that people use to grill.

Jen may rule the kitchen around here, but I’ve always loved to rock the grill!  As soon as I learned of this wonderful outdoor oven (it’s really more of a wood burning oven, than a simple grill) I knew that we absolutely needed one.  However, we live in a condo with other families and we needed everyone’s approval before one of these beauties could bask in our communal yard.  Franco became the champion of the project and pitched it at the very next board meeting.  The grill got a unanimous vote and so when Jen’s parents were here visiting, we went to acquire the grill.
Franco, Dominic and Gianfranco discuss the various merits of certain grills with the clerk

Once again, I learned that things that are usually simple in the States (i.e. buying a car or procuring cell phones) is not necessarily the case in Italy.  Buying a grill requires many visits to the store, many discussions, lots of construction and many more discussions.  I was a little taken aback when Franco picked up cement and outdoor paint, realizing this was going to be a much bigger project than I originally expected.

Collaborating on the best way to load the grill into the truck

After our second or third visit to the hardware store, Dominic purchased the grill and we loaded it onto a friend’s truck.  He helped us deliver it to the building and we carried the unbelievably heavy grill, piece by piece into the yard.  A week or so into the project and we were only marginally complete.  The grill lay disassembled, piles of cement and stone until we all returned from a quick jaunt to Scotland.  By the time I was finally able to roll up my sleeves and start slinging cinder blocks – Jen’s parents had boarded a plane bound for the States.  Sadly, Dominic never got to enjoy the BBQ that he helped acquire.  That certainly didn’t stop his brother, Franco from encouraging me to send him images of our first festa (party).  Brothers will be brothers!

Construction begins
Stefano helps mix the cement as Franco and I set the frame
Stage One complete!
Claudia scolds me in Italian for dunking Julia’s head
Julia thought this was the funniest thing
Julia wanted to help
We place the final piece
And we’re done!  Our new grill is complete
My beautiful baby

The first party we had was a blast.  Our neighbors below are from Naples – and boy, do they know how to party.  They had extended family show up and bring delectable treats with them.  I was pushed away from the grill as Aurelia and her husband, Stefano took over.  As I watched a jaw-dropping amount of meat depart the grill – I was glad I had been sent to the sidelines.  I know now that I was out of my depth.  We feasted on pork ribs, beef ribs, lamb, porchetta, speck and various types of salsiccia (sausage).  Our waistlines thanked us for the grilled vegetables – eggplant, zucchini, peppers and more.  We devoured homemade salumi and cheeses that kept appearing each time I turned around.  Of course, the cheeses were from all over Italy (“this is from Veneto… aged 24 months” or “my grandmother made this in Napoli… it stayed under ground for 36 months”).  Hours later, the desserts (insert image of the best homemade tiramisu’s I’ve ever had) and then the coffee appeared.  This was quickly followed by round after round of grappa (homemade, of course).  All this – and it was just a first of many parties!

Franco shows me how it’s done
This was the first image that I sent to Dominic – I still feel guilty, but Franco and I got a kick out of it
Our first festa went late into the night

Since then, we’ve had many more outdoor parties – including a pizza party, where all the Napolitane baked their own bread and made pizza from scratch.

Setting the table
Now the food has arrived
All different types of homemade pizza
Various types of homemade cheeses from Napoli
Stefano got a mini-keg of beer
Aurelia teasing us for taking so many photos
The food was delicious
Cousins and nieces and nephews.  Neighbors and friends – the best kind of pizza party
This seemed to be the easiest way to transport all the grappa

When my parents were here visiting, we decided it was another good time for a BBQ.

Everyone gathers around, doing various tasks
Julia plays a little calico (soccer)
Stefano gets a few lookey-loo’s while grilling (including my dad, who couldn’t understand a word being said)
Beef ribs get a nice sear while the charcoals glow beautifully
Jen’s cousins, Franco and Claudia and my parents
Aurelia telling me “smettere” (stop) with the photos.  Her sister Angelina shows me the meat
The pot kept getting magically refilled with grilled meat before it was ever emptied
Everyone digs in
Julia was certainly no exception
Another late party

Another time, we wanted to bring all the family together and so all of Jen’s cousins came for a festa.

The younger generation of cousins pose together

I’ve used the grill for a simple meal for the five of us (myself, Jen and Julia along with Franco and Claudia) and not to be outdone by any Italians – I got about three times more meat than necessary.

Would you eat an entire picante peperoncino – Franco shows us how it’s done

All told, we’ve had a wonderful grilling season and while I’m anxious for the fall and then winter – I’m already looking forward to the time when I can dust off the ol’ tongs and have another Italian-style BBQ!

Villa Carlotta’s Beautiful Gardens

There is a wonderful town along Lake Como, called Tremezzo.  Most people have heard of Bellagio, which sits on the exact shore opposite Tremezzo, but the lesser known town is a true gem with far fewer tourists crowding the streets.  Tremezzo is home to a couple of our favorite restaurants and gelaterie (ice cream parlors).  It is also home to Villa Carlotta, a 17th century treasure that has been beautifully restored and maintained.

Villa Carlotta

Jen and I have been wanting to visit Villa Carlotta since we moved to Como.  The beauty of the villa and the gardens are well known in this area and attract thousands of visitors each year.  We had planned on going in March when my aunt and uncle were visiting, but the villa is not open to the public until the 15th (just a few short days after they departed).  Since the gardens are the main attraction, the preservation society wants to ensure all the flowers are in full bloom.  Jen and I decided that since my mom is a big fan of gardens, we would visit while they were here (read about the first part of their trip HERE).

Julia peeks out from behind her Grandma and Pop-Pop

We had planned a drive along the lake to arrive in Tremezzo just in time for lunch.  We took my parents to one of our favorite restaurants, La Fagurida that we had discovered some time ago (blog post HERE).  Their specialty is rabbit – and once again, we were not disappointed with the food.

Jen and Sonny outside of La Fagurida
Julia was all kisses after lunch

After lunch, we drove back down the long and windy mountain road toward the center of town.  We parked and got our admission tickets to the villa.  We spent some time walking through the villa, but the real beauty was in walking through the elaborate and seemingly endless gardens.

Villa Carlotta, Museum and Botanical Garden
Impressive stairway leading to an impressive facade
The ornate gardens begin the moment you enter the grounds
Julia stops for a photo with her grandparents, Stefani and Sonny
She was amazed by the turtle pond
There were half a dozen of these little guys
View from the front of the villa’s terrace overlooking Lake Como
A mom and a grandma snap pictures of our little Julia
They had oranges growing in the trellis that Julia wanted to pluck
Julia strikes a fashionable pose on the terrace
The villa was positioned to overlook the town of Bellagio, across Lake Como
Priceless works of art adorn each room in the villa
Jen and Julia stop for a picture in the villa

I have copied a brief description of Villa Carlotta directly from the brochure, if you are interested in a bit of it’s unique history:

Villa Carlotta is a place of rare beauty, where masterpieces of nature and art live together in perfect harmony in over 70,000 square meters (17 acres) of garden and museum.  The beautiful villa was built at the end of the 17th century in a natural basin between lake and mountains, facing the dolomitic Grignas and the peninsula of Bellagio.  The architect created for the Clericis – a noble and powerful Milanese family – an important but somber building, with an Italian garden decorated with sculptures, stairs and fountains.  In 1801 Gian Battista Sommariva, famous politician, businessman and patron of arts, bought the villa.  Thanks to him, the villa attained the summit of its splendor and became one of the most important halting-place of the Grand Tour with its collection of art (masterpieces of Canova, Thorvaldsen and Hayez) and its fascinating romantic garden.  In the second half of the century Princess Marianne of Nassau bought the villa and gave it as a present to her daughter Carlotta in occasion of her wedding with Georg II of Saxe-Meiningen.  Georg was passionate about botany and made a lot of improvements and new additions to the park that became more and more famous for its botanical richness and the rhododendrons’ and azaleas’ spring flowering.  

The beauty of the gardens did not disappoint, we all enjoyed each moment of the self-guided tour.

Overlooking Como and Bellagio
Julia couldn’t get enough of the rhododendrons
We had to stop and smell almost every flower
One of my favorite pictures of Julia
Always the lady… or flirt?!
Giving Pop-Pop as kiss as thanks for the ride
Climbing the stairs in La valle delle felci (the valley of ferns)
Walking through Il giardino dei bambù (the gardens of bamboo)
Still in the Bamboo Garden
Julia runs quickly across a stone table
Calocedrus decurrens
Views from all angles
Julia had to play with the fountains one last time
She insisted on making a little splash

Villa Carlotta, more specifically – the gardens of Villa Carlotta are simply stunning to behold.  I would strongly recommend copying our itinerary and enjoying pranzo (lunch) at La Fagurida before spending countless hours getting lost in the gardens of Villa Carlotta.

Recreating a Photo 63 Years Later

I’ve always been amazed by my father’s dad, even though I have very few memories spending time with him.  My “Poppy” was a career photographer for National Geographic.  He was born before the turn of the century (February 24, 1898… have you ever known anyone from the 1800’s?!) in a rural town in Delaware that even today only boasts a few hundred residents.  He raised his family in Washington DC and got to travel the world for his work (long before traveling the world was something you actually did).  These are all things that I find particularly fascinating and I have discovered we even have a few parallels in our lives.  Except, he was a rather short man and I’m basically what you call basketball height (5’9″ is about the tallest you’ll see on the court, right?).
A scene along Lago di Maggiore

Of all those attributes, his long-standing career with National Geographic is probably the most interesting to me (and one I’m happy to brag about).  On a whim one day (several years ago), my sister-in-law, Jessica googled his name and was surprised at the results.  Over 400 of his images appeared on websites like art.com and others (I’m still researching how I can lay claim to the royalties… lawyers feel free to message me).  Jessica conspired with Jen and they surprised me with an huge print of one of his 1950’s Washington DC images (I was living downtown at the time).  Since Jen’s parents, Dominic and Diane had just purchased their condo in the Lake Como, Jessica and Diane also purchased one of his more famous 1950’s lake images in order to surprise me twice, as well as Jen.  When the gifts were presented, my dad, beaming with pride ran out of the room for a moment and came back with the two original copies of National Geographic magazines that contained those exact images.  I kept one magazine with my image at my home in Washington DC, and we took the other magazine to Dominic and Diane’s condo in Italy to be with the print that now hangs above our bed.

My grandfather’s photo that appeared in the August 1950 issue of National Geographic

I promise, there’s a reason I’m giving such a long account of my personal family history and it all ties back to my wonderful wife.  Not only was she thoughtful enough to present me with this great present a few years ago, but she also had a fantastic idea for a day-trip when my parents came to visit, which they did recently.

Julia was all smiles when her “Pop-Pop” and Grandma got off the plane.  My folks had been with us to Lake Como before, but this was the first time in warm weather.  They were excited to see everything with new eyes, all over again.

Benvenuto, Pop-pop and Grandma”
Julia shows them around Italy

We had a long, but flexible plan laid out.  We went to a small nearby lake, Lago di Montorfano and had a picnic.

Julia splashes in Lago di Montorfono right by our house
Then she needed a little gelato to cool down

We went for a drive along Lake Como and visited one of our favorite towns, Menaggio.

Stefani and Sonny are all smiles in Menaggio
Julia wanted to tell Pop-Pop a secret
I think she told him to smile
Julia can’t hog all the kisses from Pop-pop and Grandma
She wanted to touch the water but would get startled at each little wave crash

We also took a day trip to Monza – a town famous for the Formula 1 races that are held in the streets each September.

In front of the chiesa (church)
Julia insisted on “petting” the lion

And of course, we visited downtown Como.  On the day we were in Como, there was Fiat 500 rally in Piazza Cavour.  Recently, I was telling some American friends about this gathering of miniature vehicles and describing the car as the “Fiat Cinquecento”.  They were looking at me like they had no idea what I was talking about and I was getting more and more frustrated – “Come on… I know that you know what I’m talking about.  They’ve been in the States for a long time now.  The little car.  The Cinquecento!”  Finally, I realized that I had been saying “five hundred” in Italian and so it wasn’t making any sense to him!

Classic old Fiat 500’s
This guy had his 500 equipped right – barrels of wine attached to the roof!
Hey, even security needs a little vino!

Of all the day trips though, Jennifer had planned something that eclipsed them all.  She had decided that we would find the exact spot where my grandfather captured his lake image and recreate the exact same photo.  I thought this was a marvelous idea, but equated it to finding a needle in the haystack.  I think my dad thought it was the best idea he had ever heard and didn’t doubt for a moment that we would find the location.  Since we had the original magazine, we read the account of the photo described by my grandfather.  He captioned the photo, Summer Villas in Tiny Ronco Flank the Shores of Europe’s Deepest Lake, Maggiore, Shared by Switzerland and Italy. So it turned out that the image was actually taken on the Swiss side of a lake that crosses the border of both Italy and Switzerland.  We knew the lake – Maggiore and we knew the town – Ronco.  Some quick time spent on google confirmed that Ronco was a small village and so I became confident that we could cover the shoreline by foot and car fairly easily.

Some sailboats in Ronco

On a clear day, we packed up the car and set out toward the northwest corner of Lake Maggiore.  The journey would take about two hours crossing some beautiful countryside.  When we arrived in Ronco, I cruised the shoreline for a while looking for anything that resembled the photo.  Nothing stood out.  That’s OK… no reason to panic.  It was time for lunch anyways, so we stopped to reward ourselves with a wonderful lunch overlooking the beautiful lake.

“Cin-cin, Dad!”
A happy couple eating lunch that overlooks the lake
Julia makes a silly face while eating her pasta (and she also made a big mess)

After a leisurely lunch it was time to go back to work.  Since we had covered the south side of the village and the car was already parked, I made the decision to go north by foot.  We walked for a bit.  Then we walked further.  Finally, I spotted it.  But it wasn’t right.  So we pushed on.  Everyone’s pace slowed. But I remained confident it was just around the bend.  It was not.  Eventually, the sidewalk ended and I was pretty sure we had left Ronco twenty minutes prior.  Sadly, we turned back to the car, but not before stopping at a bar to talk to the locals.  I asked the proprietor if he was familiar with the location of my image (I had printed a copy to take with me).  With barely a glance, he said “sì, sì. Conosco quel posto. Questo è Ascona” (yes, yes I know that place.  That is Ascona).  Wait, what?  Ascona – the town about 10 kilometers up the road?  He couldn’t be right, could he?

Julia marches through Ascona on the hunt for Poppy’s spot

We piled back in the car and drove to Ascona, just a few minutes up the road.  Immediately after we parked, we saw it – the exact spot where my grandfather snapped his photo over sixty years prior!  I learned something about my Poppy that day.  Even though he was an exceptional photographer, his attention to detail may not have been the best.  We imagined him, hunched over his photography equipment and notepad, enjoying a leisurely lunch and wonderful vino.  I pictured him scribbling a few notes about the Lake and then asking a waiter the name of the town, not bothering to care (or realize) that he was lunching in Ronco, a town close – but yet so far from Ascona.

This was the area of the shot – the houses were different colors, but they were all still there
We were thrilled to have found it, Poppy’s published error notwithstanding.  We were also amazed at the beauty of Ascona, a charming town with roughly 5,500 inhabitants.  We walked along the water’s bank, our eyes always gazing upward toward the mountains and homes that appeared in Poppy’s image.  I was particularly pleased, but not altogether surprised to see that all the same homes were still intact (although a few additional homes and condo’s had sprung up over the years).  My father and I plotted and planned and finally agreed on the frame of the image.  I must have taken over 100 images before we were done.  Really getting into the spirit, I made my mom and dad pose with me like the dockworkers did so many years ago.  We walked further down the shore and then realized we had picked the wrong spot.  I suppose my grandpa isn’t the only one entitled to a mistake.
I’m trying to line up the image
My father and I review my work to check for accuracy
I posed us all as the dockworkers and tourists in the photo
Three generations pose where the prior generation had been over sixty years prior
Julia was all hugs

After we discovered we had been shooting in the wrong spot, we re-set and shot again.  This time, we were confident that we captured the exact same image.  There was even a boat on the ramp, like in the original photo.

Re-framing the shot
We both agreed on the new spot
Posing as dock works again
The final product – this was the shot I chose to resemble the original
And the original again so you can compare how we did

We spent a little time walking around the town and then headed back to the car, pleased with a job well done.

Julia insisted on getting her feet wet
Playing with daddy
Campanile (bell tower) of Ascona
Restaurants line the pedestrian street along the lake
An old Castello (castle) turned into a modern day Inn
Flags of various European countries lay still on a windless day
An old church on the hillside
Boats in the harbor

I couldn’t believe that I stood within feet (perhaps even the exact same spot) that my grandfather did sixty three years prior.  My grandfather passed away nearly thirty years ago – when I was five years old.  I felt more connected to him at that very moment that I ever had before.  I know it was a special day for me and I’m sure it was even more special for my own dad.  I will always be grateful to my wife for suggesting that we embark on this journey together.

Channeling my inner Poppy in order to take good pictures